YES, GIRLS. WHAT'S SAUCE FOR THE GOOSE... Guest Book Have Your Say Read "The Criminalization of Fathers" for a terrifying summary of what can happen to you. The New McCarthyism asks: "Are you now, or have you ever been, a member of the male gender?" Feminism has moved far beyond helping women and become just another fascism which cannot tolerate criticism. Anyone who has read Orwell's Animal Farm would see the monster feminism has become. Militant Feminism is a festering, putrid cancer on society and it must be eliminated. If you think my complaints about feminism are bad, look at some of the hundreds of feminist sites which promote the out and out hatred of men. This site is a father's response to sites like the despicable bounty hunter sites posted by feminists and bounty hunters attacking men who may or may not be behind in child support for children they are not permitted to see. Look at sites like: Wanted Posters or Deadbeat dads or Deadbeat dad in America

It is always amazing to me how those tiny, politically correct minds out there in the media and in the ranks (and they are rank) of feminism, can spew out their lies, their hate male and their propaganda, but the minute a man responds he is dangerous, harassing, threatening or crazy. What is crazy is my being silent all these years. If feminists, and media hacks, the cheap shot specialists, can dish it out, why can't they take a tiny taste of their own medicine? NEW DISEASE DISCOVERED!! Read about the Salem Syndrome pandemic here "God" is merely the deification of ignorance. Help eridicate all religion. God save me from religion. Join my Men's Rights Mailing List Join the Media Mailing List. Strictly for members of the Media seeking valid information on the burgeoning Men's RIghts Movement in Canada. Why, when a man criticizes an individual woman, do women reply by calling him a misogynist? If a man expresses his opinion in a forest and his wife is not there to hear him, is he still wrong?

Are women alleging problems with silicone implants suffering from false mammary syndrome? Any one who says women are intelligent has never stood behind one in a check out line. Before you give to the United Way this year, ask how much they spend on men's issues? In Toronto, the answer is zero. They also have published a series of hate male ads exploiting the male violence myth. They do this every year and it is time they ran an ad showing abusive women who are far more common then abusive men. Why is there no government funding for men's issues, men's rights, men's shelters, men's rights groups? Why do only women get this tax money, which is largely paid by men? Women's work is never done. They're always sitting on their buns Why is it that women who make sexist remarks about men and testosterone, will always get angry when asked about their mood swings? Why is it that women who make sexist jokes about labourers butt cracks showing, subject us to their cleavage cracks and/or display every flabby crack and cellulite loaded fold of their own in those god awful tights? Why is it that women say it is always wrong to hit, but think that it is funny or ok for a woman to hit a man? Why is it that women who demand honesty in relationships spend so much time and money hiding their real appearance behind trowelled on makeup, bust implants, hair colour and cosmetic surgery. Are there no truth in packaging laws for women? Why do women dress to attract the most attention to themselves, especially to their mammaries, and then complain when men look? If men do not look, they complain even more. Women who sell sex, strip, peddle their asses, pose nude in magazines and movies are not being exploited by men. They are exploiting men.

Most recently in January 2002, I was successful in getting a FORD FOCUS ad pulled. The ad showed a female sexual predator literally assaulting and kidnapping a male store clerk, by stalking him, luring him to her FORD FOCUS and kneeing him the testicles and shoving him into her trunk. The ad was so suggestive of Karla Holmoka that it is astounding that the commercial ever got written, let alone produced and aired. It is just more proof that women do not have the judgement to overcome their hatred of men.

It is very easy to do since advertisers are so sensitive to public opinion. Most people complain to each other, but only 1 in a million persons actually contacts the offending advertiser with a written complaint.

So if you see an ad that offends men or is sexist or portrays men as idiots (eg the Finese shampoo commercials, most McCains and Kraft food ads ) or shows women abusing, mocking or hitting men, send the president of that company a fax. Do not just send an email, you want him/her to get a hard copy letter. Emails complaining about the ad are too easy to ignore. Be sure you write or fax a hard copy letter directly to the President of the company. Do not waste time dealing with the marketing or advertising flunkies. They sold the ad to the President, so they will only get defensive.

You can easily find the company address and President's name since most advertisers now have web sites or use the net's 411 or Canada411 phone directories. In the case of packaged goods, there is always an address and often an 800 number on the package.

If it is a print advertisement, it helps if you enclose a copy of the advertisement. With a broadcast message, identify the station, approximate time, the name of the product, etc. Give a brief written explanation as to why you think the message contravenes the Code. Often it is just a waste of time writing the Advertising Standards Counsel about anti male ads, since the ASC is run by feminists, but we have to keep after them, so write them and copy your local media. They will usually do nothing about hate male ads. Write the corporation, Do not write the ad agency, since they will only get defensive.

Remember. one written complaint is seen as representing thousands of silent complaints and just one letter can kill an offensive ad.

So get after these companies. Hit them in the wallet. They react.

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If you don't like the truth about ABUSER MOMS, go away. NOTE! At the moment this page is nothing but a collection of notes to myself re topics for this site. Do not be disturbed by the fragments of topics here. I am building this site in my spare time and posting these little snippets when I think of them is a good way to keep track of ideas. This page is more like a to do list then a coherent web site, but that will change in short order. This site is just commencing as of April 21, 1999 so bookmark it and keep coming back. I hope to have it in some sort of shape soon. J Kirby Inwood, Web master and Cheated father. Ever notice how most young liberals die old conservatives?

Affirmative Action is the buzzword for "White men need not apply. We are only hiring second rate under achievers who think the world owes them a living." When you see a want ad which says something like; "Applications from visible minorities encouraged" you should realize that again, white men need not apply.

Boycott these firms. Do not deal with them. They are misguided, substituting political correctness for common sense. They will not hire you. Why give them one penny's worth of business?

A woman who does not take the name of her husband is declaring to the world that she is not committed to the marriage.

Got a breast implant problem? There is no medical justification under any circumstances (including mastectomy) for breast implants. The only reason it is done is to assuage women's boundless vanity. If a women develops a self inflicted problems from breast implants, tough titty. She is a responsible adult the equal to any man. Fine. Let her pay the costs of her vain stupidity.

Foot binding, female circumcision and bride burning all have one thing in common. They are done by women to women. There is no justification, medical or practical, for any form of circumcision, male or female, whatsoever. It is mutilation, child abuse, and assault and is based solely on the superstitions and ignorance of tribal religions and small cults. Hacking chunks of flesh off babies or children is a crime. Parents who mutilate their children are butchers, ignorant savages, and should be jailed.

Here is a verbatim copy of a brochure picked up from a small town community notice board in the Australian state of Victoria in early July 1998. Mind-boggling in its admissions and implications re female DV. This was originally posted by Jackel Lindsay from Australia. must reading: domestic violence pamphlet

If women really want equality, then they must also accept responsibility for their own actions and stop blaming men, the system and the world. That includes the freedom to be treated by the courts in the same manner that men are treated. The world does NOT owe women a living and men today are not responsible for the actions of their ancestors.
• Abuser Moms deny children court ordered access to their fathers. This is a criminal act of contempt of court.
• Abuser Moms file false domestic violence and sexual charges against fathers. This is a criminal act of Public Defamation, Perjury and more.
• Abuser Moms use the children to exact vengeance for imaginary and real slights. This is child abuse and that is a crime.
• Abuser Moms have children they cannot afford and exploit fathers to pay for them. This is a criminal act of fraud.
• Abuser Moms poison the children against the father. This is a criminal act of child abuse, defamation and usually perjury/
• Abuser Moms exploit welfare and use the "system" so they do not have to work. This is the crime of welfare fraud.
• Abuser Moms cry "date rape" This is a criminal act of public mischief, filing false complaints, probably perjury and more.
• Abuser Moms kill, maim, abuse, beat, spank, torture children at rates many times higher then fathers. This involves crimes ranging from simple assault to first degree murder.
• Abuser Moms think that men owe them a living.

No, we are not misogynists. Criticizing all the hypocrites, cheats, fraud artists and others who are exploiting men is not misogyny. You can be certain that the feminists will start off with their usual name calling. The male collaborators, the Vichy cowards, the white wibbon wimps, are already scurrying to do the bidding of their mistresses by attacking this tiny little page. We have received several threats and there have been several attempts to shut this site down already. What are these cowards afraid of? Don't these pathetic losers realize that freedom for men even includes them, these modern day eunuchs? But a man who, having been relieved of his mistress' tyrannical yoke, puts it back on again, does not really want freedom.

It is too bad that there just isn't a word which describes female hatred of men. Mysandry is not adequate. I suppose we will have to coin one. Suggestions?

This site will also be posting messages to kids from fathers ( like me) who have been denied access and driven off by mothers who are poisoning their own children. Please submit your messages to your children and I will post them as they come in.

• Why Men Can't Win

  from the net author unknown...

• If you work too hard, there is never any time for her.
  If you don't work enough, you're a good for nothing bum.

• If she has a boring repetitive job with low pay, it's exploitation.
  If you have a boring repetitive job with low pay, you should get off your butt and find something better.

• If you get a promotion ahead of her, it's favouritism.
  If she gets a job ahead of you, it's equal opportunity.

• If you mention how nice she looks, it's sexual harassment.
  If you keep quiet, it's male indifference.

• If you cry, you're a wimp.
  If you don't, you're insensitive.

• If you make a decision without consulting her, you're a chauvinist.
  If she makes a decision without consulting you, she's a liberated woman.

• If you ask her to do something she doesn't enjoy, that's domination.
  If she asks you, it's a favour.

• If you try to keep yourself in shape, you're vain.
  If you don't, you're a slob.

• If you buy her flowers, you're after something.
  If you don't, you're not thoughtful.

• If you're proud of your achievements, you're an egotist.
  If you're not, you're not ambitious.

• If she has a headache, she's tired.
  If you have a headache, you don't love her anymore.

• If you control the money you earn, you're a sexist, controlling pig
  If she controls the money she earns, she's liberated.

• You share everything 50/50
  What's yours is hers and what's hers is hers.

Of course this is probably the same woman whose mother told her a man is like linoleum. If you lay it properly, you can walk all over it for the next thirty years.

THIS WEB SITE IS BEING CONSTRUCTED TO POST PHOTOS AND CONTACT DETAILS OF ALL THOSE VICIOUS MOTHERS OUT THERE WHO ARE DEFYING COURT ORDERS, POISONING THEIR KIDS AGAINST THEIR FATHERS, AND MAKING FALSE ACCUSATIONS AND ALLEGATIONS.

Here FWIW is my testimony before the Joint Commons Senate Committee on Child Custody and Access. An entire web site could be devoted to the Committee and its likelihood of getting any recommendations past the bigot man hating AG Anne McClellan

FIRMS TO HUNT DEADBEAT DADS it's open season on fathers. Get the varmints!!

We will also post the names of lawyers and judges who are committing fraud by cheating fathers with worthless orders.

ON A POSITIVE NOTE: We would like the names of father friendly judges (if there are any) and father friendly lawyers. We will post these names so that fathers may benefit

We intend to expose the cheats, the welfare breeder mothers, and the other monstrous mothers and post their names, addresses and pictures here. We want other men to know what they may be getting into.

If you have a unnatural mother you want posted here, email us the details.

If women were dying seven years sooner then men there would be unlimited medical research into the cause, unlimited funding for support services and "counselling" and non-stop advertising to build awareness of the problem. Men are dying seven years sooner then women and no one cares. There isn't one penny being spent on this catastrophe. No surprise eh?

The girls have a dead beat dad locator system, but if a women disappears with the child, the same system isn't used to provide the father access to their children. Did you know that in the past twenty years in Ontario, only two women have been jailed (for only a couple days each) for refusing to obey access orders out of the thousands? How many men are in our jails because they cannot pay child support or have been the victim (as I was ) of false allegations?

Men: Have you noticed that there is essentially no such thing as a single custodial or adoptive father?
• Married couples can adopt children
• Single women can adopt children
• Lesbian "couples" can adopt children
• Homosexual "couples" can adopt children
• Single men cannot adopt children

Who has seen my son? Michael Kirby Inwood is 12 years old. Is he alive?

Did you know that PMS is a legal defense for women? If they suffer from PMS, (actually everyone around them suffers) they can claim they are not responsible for their actions. That suggests that these women are legally insane 25% of the time. Yet they are out walking the streets. That is scary.

Did you know that in Canada a woman can legally kill her newborn or nursing infant and claim she was legally incompetent due to the stress of childbirth and lactation? It is called infanticide and is included in the Criminal Code.

Of course every one knows that women can kill spouses with impunity by claiming domestic violence. Legal murder is ok for women, but a man will go to penitentiary for defending himself.

Feminists like to claim that male leaders are responsible for war and that if women ran the world things would be different. What do they say about Margaret Thatcher, Catherine the Great, Queen Victoria, Joan of Arc, Indhira Ghandi, Golda Meir to name the first few that come to mind? War mongers all. Women in power are no different from men in power.

WHY FAT FEMINISTS HATE MEN:

Would you date a feminist? Can you say date rape?

Have you noticed how so many militant, man hating feminists are hugely overweight, grotesque beached whales? Is there a connection between being a fat ugly sow of a feminist and hating men? Of course there is. The connection is so obvious that you will kick yourself for not seeing it before.

Fat sow feminists, like Pat Marshall, Michelle Landsberg, Linda Silver Dranoff ( hideous ) and even Whacky Wente (of the Globe and Mail ) or Judy (Redneck) Rebick were probably just as grotesque in their school days. They have in all likelihood experienced universal rejection by most men, simply because they were so unkempt and unattractive. Even today, they are unkempt, often look like they are un bathed and wear their poor personal hygiene as some sort of uniform.

Women present themselves to men on the basis of looks only. That is easier then having to actually achieve something on the basis of hard work. Unattractive women would not be able to get dates from men. This would naturally lead to a vow to get even with all men and be the genesis of the festering hatred of men that these psychotic women all exhibit.

Is there a cure for this sexist hatred? No. You cannot cure a feminist of hating men any more then you cure a KKK bigot of hating blacks. Is the hatred feminist spew any different then racist or religious hatred? No it is not. It is however the only form of discrimination that is still legal. If you substitute the word "Nigger" or "Mick" or "Jew" in the speeches and writing of these hate mongers, they would be prosecuted immediately for publishing hate literature. Michelle Landsberg and the Toronto Star would spend the next millennium in court.

This type of hatred is really self hatred projected outwards on others and is fundamental to the bigots emotional and mental survival. It is a common symptom of deep seated psychosis. Without this projection, they would have to do the unthinkable. Face themselves and face reality. It is easier and in our grant ridden society, even profitable to hate and attack men. Many of these bigots are making very good livings from preaching their anti male hatred.

It is ironic that it is largely men who are paying the taxes which fund these attacks on themselves.

Originally feminism filled a real need and was founded on good impulses. Women in our society were not necessarily victimized, (there was no real malice in men's wishes to protect and cherish) but there was discrimination, doors were closed and women were truly second class citizens. That is not true today.

Over time those good impulses became ideology, the ideology inexorably became dogma, and now the dogma is used to justify any and all extreme measures which lead directly to the repression and oppression of men and has created dangerous and blind bigoted women (and collaborating men) who are committed, myopic True Believers, Brown Shirts and Militant Feminists.

Today Western Militant Feminism is about greed, grants and gain. It exploits women, the government and society by claiming to be victims when in fact militant feminists are now the oppressors, the exploiters. They deny equality to all but themselves. Their ranks are rife with petty infighting as they squabble like vultures over the spoils. They take, but they do not give. Militant feminism is destroying itself, which is for the best.

This is not to say that women in third world countries are not in desperate need of a productive feminism which can overcome cruel oppressive societies where women are truly chattel not quite equal to cattle. JKI Back to the kitchen?? ;-)

WE WANT OUR KIDS, DAMN IT!

feminism is " "a Society that hath a peculiar cant and Jargon all their own, that no other mortal can understand, and wherein all of their laws are written, which they take special care to multiply: whereby they have wholly confounded the very essence of Truth and Falsehood, of Right and Wrong." - Jonathan Swift; Gulliver's Travels"

Yes, a handful of women get raped in wars, but a few rapes is nothing compared to the thousands of men who are killed, wounded or permanently maimed in war. Where is women's equality when it comes to getting killed on a battlefield? Women certainly have always profited from the spoils of war, but as usual, have never paid for their share.

from Medusa to Messalina to Mom

From Eve to Jezebel to Delilah to Pandora

Salome
Phallophobia

Women claim they face a glass ceiling, but men live in a glass box.

Why is it that single men cannot adopt children but single women can?

TIPS FOR FATHERS:

If you suspect your loving wife is cheating or planning to shaft you get in the habit of checking the phone for her last caller and last phone calls. Write down the numbers and do a reverse directory check to find out who she is talking to. You can do reverse directory checks for free on the net.

CHECKING HER CALLERS. Really easy. Punch *69 to get the number of the last caller. You can easily do this right in front of her and she will never suspect, if you pretend you just dialed a wrong number or some such.

CHECKING WHO SHE CALLED; simple. Punch the redial last number on the phone. See who answers. The rest is up to how good an actor and investigator you are.

KEEP ALL YOUR OLD PHONE BILLS These list all long distance calls. The information may prove useful.

If you are really serious, you can easily obtain a tape device which will automatically record all calls on your phone. Set the recorder up in the basement behind the rafters or somewhere where she will never see it. However it is illegal to tape calls to which you are not a party. So calls between your wife and you may be legally taped, but calls between your wife and others may not be legally taped. I would never ever suggest you break the law.

Look up your local Radio Shack or if you really want to get fancy most cities now have Spy Stores which sell incredible James Bond gadgets.

If you are separated, you can always collect her garbage that she puts at the curb on garbage days. Go through it for old phone bills, statements, and other interesting tidbits. Just make sure she doesn't see you doing it. I do not think it is illegal to collect garbage which to all intents and purposes has been abandoned when put out for collection.

Go get 'em guys. This is war. Use the techniques women have been using against us for years.

The time has come. Given that well over half of all marriages end in divorce, usually instigated by the woman, it is time to change the way things are done. In reality, says a wave of new research, throughout most of North American history wives have filed for divorce twice as often as husbands.
• We need a mandatory waiting period of no less then one full year for ALL couples wishing to marry. No exceptions.
• Couples would be required to register their engagement and the waiting period would commence from that registration.
• During the wait, mandatory full financial disclosure, background checks and marriage preparation courses would be required.
• If the woman is pregnant mandatory paternity tests would be required to establish true paternity BEFORE the couple could marry, giving the potential groom the chance to avoid being cuckolded.
• In addition a detailed prenup should be required detailing financial issues, all issues regarding the raising, religion and education of any children and a shared parenting plan in the event of marriage breakdown when the wife gets bored or seeks someone richer.
• There are many other issues which could be included. Perhaps married couples should be prohibited from reproducing until they have been married for say five years....??? Will this happen? Unlikely. SHOULD it happen? Definitely.

If ignorance of the law is no excuse, why is it illegal to practice law unless you spend years and years in school and why are judges required to have at least ten years experience in practicing law?

Just wondering: Is it possible that the reason men hate shopping is that 80% of the stores cater to women and 80% of the products are for women? After all women spend 80% of the family's disposable income,,,, whether they earned it or not. Do you suppose that this reflects women's narcissism and extreme self centredness?

Never ever take a woman's smile at face value. A woman's smile is the most meaningless, insincere gesture on earth. A woman will smile at you as she betrays you or sticks a knife in your back.

"POLL ADDRESSES CHILD ACCESS"

Seven out of 10 people say child-support should be withheld from women who deny access to their children to husbands who pay child support, according to a poll for the Globe and Mail by Angus Reid Group. However, Ontario residents are divided over whether women who repeatedly deny access should face jail sentences.

Forty-six per cent said jail sentences are acceptable, while 48 per cent said they are unacceptable. The poll was prompted by a recent court case in Ontario that saw a woman sent to jail for denying her ex-husband access to their children.

The issue also has been the subject of hearings by a Senate committee on the issue of access and child support. The poll, which questioned a representative sample of 1000 Ontario adults, was conducted between April 22 and May 3. (1998) A sample of this size means that 19 times out of 20, the results are the same within 3.2 percentage points as the results that would be obtained by questioning all adults in the province.

For the full study

Ode To Political Correctness by Justin Case

My, how things have changed since I was a lad
Now ev'rything has a new name.
I used to be called an American,
And my brother and sister the same.

My father is black, my mother is white
(although she was born in Siam),
But today I must carefully say it just right
So I've had to relearn what I am.

Here's what society says I must say
Whenever I have the occasion
"I'm Afro-American (Watusi tribe)
And Caucasian of Asian persuasion".

-but it goes beyond that, this renaming thing,
"Gay-lesbian rights" brings applause.
They march down the street, no longer discrete,
While the Feds are funding their cause.

Cousin Charles was a "homo",  Aunt Bessie a "dyke"
Grampa called them "three-dollar bills".
Today they're called "gay" (but, in their own way)
And both take birth-control pills.

Radical fems rob Federal coffers
To take kids away from their dads
And even when judges reduce men to paupers
They're N.O.W. called "deadbeats" and "cads".

Lord, I tire of all this semantic re-tweaking,
But methinks I am rising above it.
So take your correctness, politically speaking,
And do me a favor...just shove it!

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