"She took the kids, got the house, the cars,
emptied the mutual funds, raided the savings account. She got everything."

HERE ARE SOME IMPORTANT WARNING SIGNS
THAT YOUR WIFE IS PLANNING ON DUMPING YOU

Remember women institute nearly 70% of all divorces. They pre-plan their moves very carefully long in advance. The husband is always the last to know. Men never seem to believe that she means it. Most men say they were stunned. That they had no idea she was "unhappy." They had no idea the marriage was even in trouble. Is that because men are obtuse or is it because women are so expert in deception? Even as they preach open honest communications, these women are lying and deceiving their husbands about the state of their marriage. "Marriage is the first step on the road to divorce."

RECOGNIZE THAT IN 90% OF SEPARATIONS, SHE IS NOT COMING BACK
In fact I can assure you she is laughing at your stupidity in trying to get her back.


STOP FEELING GUILTY! IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! SHE USED YOU.

If she stabbed you in the back once, she will do it again. You are better offer rid of her. She has been lying to you, deceiving you and using you. This will never change. She will never come back, but she (often on the advice of her lawyer or feminist shelter group) dangles that hope to con you out of your rights in custody, access, support and asset equalization.

Women do not have a sense of fair play or chivalry. They use our chivalry and sense of fair play against us. We men are taught to never kick a man when he is down. Women do not have these restraints. Women will kick you when you are down and enjoy it. They feel this is their inalienable right as poor exploited down trodden victims of society.

She is exploiting your pain, your confusion and the usual guilt a man feels when his wife suddenly ups and leaves. It is probably not your fault. Most women leave a marriage because they are simply bored. So much for commitment and the old vows eh?


IN CHILD CUSTODY POSSESSION IS 10/10THS OF THE LAW.
Did she take the kids? There is no such thing as interim custody. If she took the kids or kicked you of your house and she has the kids, the courts will not change the status quo. In any court actions,
NEVER EVER CONCEDE INTERIM CUSTODY TO HER. FIGHT IT FOREVER!
You cannot appease her in the hopes that she will come back. She is your blood enemy now. She wants to harm you. To prevent you from seeing your kids, let alone get custody. And the law is biased in her favour. You are at war and have no weapons, while she has nukes. Learn this now.
FALSE DOMESTIC ASSAULT OR SEXUAL ABUSE ALLEGATIONS
You are guilty till proven innocent and then you are still guilty. You cannot win.

This is the preferred weapon of vast numbers of women. All they have to do is make the accusation and you will immediately to all intents and purposes lose any potential custody action. You will probably (virtually certainly) be arrested, charged and put under a bail order denying you all contact with your children and your ex.

The courts, the police and the media all know that the vast majority of these accusations are false, but you will be forced to prove you are innocent and even then the family courts will regard you as a risk and deny you custody.

What can you do? Fight back. Concede nothing. Do not submit to plea bargain blackmail, you will regret that for the rest of your life. Unfortunately the law is so corrupt in this area, that scores of innocent men are being wrongly convicted every day. In Ontario 85% of all false domestic violence charges brought to trial result in convictions. In family law, women get custody 90% of the time. That is not justice. That is discrimination and injustice.


SOME EARLY WARNING SIGNS THAT SHE IS GOING TO LEAVE

Things seem to be disappearing from the house, but you're not sure. Women planning on leaving are advised to slowly remove the things they want from the house. The assumption is that you won't notice until it is too late.

A new woman friend is on the scene with whom your wife holds many mysterious phone calls.

Things are strangely calm with her. She has made her final decision and is carrying out a plan to get rid of you.

She has opened a new bank account or suddenly started worrying about her personal credit rating

Check to see if any suitcases or such are missing. Women planning on leaving will pack a get away bag and stash it at a friend's house.

She is suddenly more secretive then usual about things like her phone calls, her mail, her whereabouts

She is more tolerant of things about you that bug her or she seems to just not give a damn anymore.

Is there sudden interest in getting a job outside the house or a better paying job?

PARENTAL ABDUCTION It is a crime for your wife to deny you court ordered access to your children. It is almost impossible to get the courts or the police to act against a woman, so you must protect your own rights as much as you can. Assume the worst. Assume she will try to disappear with your kids and that you will have to try and find her anywhere on the planet. The following will assist you.

AS A MATTER OF POLICY: You should make a written record of all her documents in case you ever need to track your children if she suddenly moves away. ( If you have to sneak through her purse at night do it. You know she has snooped through your wallet. All women snoop, it in their genes to be nosy. )

Be certain to get a record of at least all of these items:

  • Social Insurance Number
  • Health Insurance number
  • Drivers Licence Number
  • Vehicle Identification number
  • Licence plate number
  • Vehicle ownership
  • Insurance policy numbers, company etc
  • Passport number: (hers and the children's if any)
  • Credit card numbers
  • Bank account numbers
Go through her address book and make a note of the names addresses and phones of her friends and any location she might use to go underground.

PASSPORTS: INFORM EXTERNAL AFFAIRS that she has no court order or is under a non removal order permitting her to remove the children from Canada. Ask them to deny a passport to your children without your written permission. This is perfectly legal and External Affairs must comply with this request.

CONTACT US CUSTOMS AND IMMIGRATION: Warn them that your loving wife may try to enter the US illegally with the children. Tell them of any criminal charges against her or pending including suggesting that she is a criminal, a drug dealer or any other such item. This will have her name entered in their computer as an undesirable and she will be stopped at the border. This is much easier then trying to locate her in the US (or elsewhere) and get your children returned to Canada.

INFORM THE AIRLINES: Warn the airlines that she may be illegally planning to parentally abduct your children.

ASSETS: If she is planning on leaving she will be certain to raid and clean out your joint bank accounts, safe boxes and such. Make sure there is nothing to take.


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